Tell Us Your Story!

Share your stories of how a breakup turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to you.

You can take a look at some of the other videos on the site to get an idea of submissions that we’ve used.

You can also use this easy template:

  • Give a short description of the relationship.
  • Tell us about the breakup.
  • Tell us what you learned.
  • Tell use who you were then, compared to who you are now.

Most importantly, end your story by asking yourself the question we are all here to share:

He Did Me A Favor because…

Or

He Did Me A Favor by…

NOTE:

Thank you so much for sharing your story! Give yourself a big hug for getting through your breakup and moving on with your fab life!

While we can’t always include every story, we do celebrate every story, so keep ’em coming! For us, each new submission means there is one more member of the He Did You A Favor community out there getting her girl power on!

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Testimonials

"I'd recommend this book to anyone in love now, or to anyone who has lost love but is ready to recover."

Poppy Johson

Luxury Reading

2015-01-26T09:34:54-07:00

Poppy Johson

Luxury Reading

"I'd recommend this book to anyone in love now, or to anyone who has lost love but is ready to recover."

"I wish I had this book when I was younger and going through relationships and breakups. It would have been a wonderful tool and a great help to get through those moments of thinking I wasn't good enough or that there was something wrong with me."

Every Free Chance

2015-01-26T09:27:45-07:00

Every Free Chance

"I wish I had this book when I was younger and going through relationships and breakups. It would have been a wonderful tool and a great help to get through those moments of thinking I wasn't good enough or that there was something wrong with me."

"I think the one thing I loved most about this book is that you can feel like Debra knows what you're going through, how you feel and even adds just the right amount of humor so you can find yourself smiling again."

Review from The Heart

2015-01-26T09:30:07-07:00

Review from The Heart

"I think the one thing I loved most about this book is that you can feel like Debra knows what you're going through, how you feel and even adds just the right amount of humor so you can find yourself smiling again."

"Stop what you're doing! Go buy it! Run, don't walk!"

Crossroads Reviews

2015-01-26T09:32:56-07:00

Crossroads Reviews

"Stop what you're doing! Go buy it! Run, don't walk!"

I wish I had read this book when maneuvering my early relationships and breakups… it would have saved me so much heartbreak!

Ferrell Marshall

Actress

2013-01-28T22:55:14-07:00

Ferrell Marshall

Actress

I wish I had read this book when maneuvering my early relationships and breakups… it would have saved me so much heartbreak!

"Debra Rogers wrote a must read for anyone going through a break up, or has gone through one or a women who just wants to become a better, more powerful person. This is one of the best "self help" books I've ever read, Ms. Rogers, I applaud you."

Gayle Pace

Book Reviews, Etc.

2015-01-26T09:12:51-07:00

Gayle Pace

Book Reviews, Etc.

"Debra Rogers wrote a must read for anyone going through a break up, or has gone through one or a women who just wants to become a better, more powerful person. This is one of the best "self help" books I've ever read, Ms. Rogers, I applaud you."

Thank you for reminding me of the most important thing! It's not about how he hurt you and that he's gone, it's about walking back into the incredible powerhouse you are! Don't waste another minute on someone who doesn't deserve it, read this book and get on with your bad self!

Wendy Maddox

Founder, “Hoardiculture.”

2013-01-28T22:54:50-07:00

Wendy Maddox

Founder, “Hoardiculture.”

Thank you for reminding me of the most important thing! It's not about how he hurt you and that he's gone, it's about walking back into the incredible powerhouse you are! Don't waste another minute on someone who doesn't deserve it, read this book and get on with your bad self!

"If you or know of anyone going through a breakup this is a excellent book to help you through it. It is full of many "helps" and good pointers."

Woman of God Book Reviews

2015-01-26T09:24:45-07:00

Woman of God Book Reviews

"If you or know of anyone going through a breakup this is a excellent book to help you through it. It is full of many "helps" and good pointers."

"You will feel like you are talking to a good friend who is cheering you on as you are reading."

Krista Low

A Handful of Everything

2015-01-26T09:22:28-07:00

Krista Low

A Handful of Everything

"You will feel like you are talking to a good friend who is cheering you on as you are reading."

"This is a great self-help book that isn't just telling you tired old advice that you don't need. It's modern, it's fun, and it really includes some awesome advice. It's fresh, it's relevant and it's worth picking up! I'll be hanging onto this book in case I ever need to reference it again, or share it with a girlfriend."

Brooke Bungardner

Brooke's Blogs

2015-01-26T09:20:34-07:00

Brooke Bungardner

Brooke's Blogs

"This is a great self-help book that isn't just telling you tired old advice that you don't need. It's modern, it's fun, and it really includes some awesome advice. It's fresh, it's relevant and it's worth picking up! I'll be hanging onto this book in case I ever need to reference it again, or share it with a girlfriend."

"I found this book to be entertaining and the advice to be sound advice. It's the perfect book for any woman going through a break-up."

Marlene Engel

Book Mama Blog

2015-01-26T09:15:40-07:00

Marlene Engel

Book Mama Blog

"I found this book to be entertaining and the advice to be sound advice. It's the perfect book for any woman going through a break-up."

"Written with class and eloquence, this book also has enough hilarity to make you laugh so hard you'll forget what (or whom) you were sad about in the first place."

Katie Kelly

Celtic Lady's Reviews

2015-01-26T09:07:26-07:00

Katie Kelly

Celtic Lady's Reviews

"Written with class and eloquence, this book also has enough hilarity to make you laugh so hard you'll forget what (or whom) you were sad about in the first place."

"Where was this book nine years ago! It's a great book, and I'm sure it will become a woman's pocket guide to letting go."

Ontresicia Averette “The Color of Success”

TV Show

2015-01-26T08:59:44-07:00

Ontresicia Averette “The Color of Success”

TV Show

"Where was this book nine years ago! It's a great book, and I'm sure it will become a woman's pocket guide to letting go."

This book is the perfect remedy for a broken heart.

Meredith Shevory 

Marketing & Sales Executive

2013-01-28T22:52:32-07:00

Meredith Shevory 

Marketing & Sales Executive

This book is the perfect remedy for a broken heart.

Debra's book came into my life at exactly the right time and her words and insights were like a soothing balm. This book is empowering and lest we forget FUN! Thank-you! I now carry the He Did You A Favor: Emergency Break-Up Kit in my purse to show/lend to girlfriends!

Virginia Kingston

Actress

2013-01-28T22:54:08-07:00

Virginia Kingston

Actress

Debra's book came into my life at exactly the right time and her words and insights were like a soothing balm. This book is empowering and lest we forget FUN! Thank-you! I now carry the He Did You A Favor: Emergency Break-Up Kit in my purse to show/lend to girlfriends!

Debra’s book is like your best girlfriend (with better advice!) who holds your hand through your breakup and makes you laugh at the same time. She gets it because she’s been there. Read this book. You won’t be disappointed!

Paige Hobey

Author, “Girls Guide To Babyville.”

2013-01-28T22:53:40-07:00

Paige Hobey

Author, “Girls Guide To Babyville.”

Debra’s book is like your best girlfriend (with better advice!) who holds your hand through your breakup and makes you laugh at the same time. She gets it because she’s been there. Read this book. You won’t be disappointed!

Debra's loving guidance is grounded in truth and experience, and is sure to help heal and empower you to move forward!

Cindy Yantis - Writer, “Thought Changer Blog.

2013-01-28T22:53:13-07:00

Cindy Yantis - Writer, “Thought Changer Blog.

Debra's loving guidance is grounded in truth and experience, and is sure to help heal and empower you to move forward!

“Make sure to buy her book! It changed my life for the better and now I know that if a man leaves me it is his lost and I will meet someone special that’ll give me the love that I deserve!”

Blasian Quinta

The Curvy Metalhead Show

2015-09-04T02:15:45-07:00

Blasian Quinta

The Curvy Metalhead Show

“Make sure to buy her book! It changed my life for the better and now I know that if a man leaves me it is his lost and I will meet someone special that’ll give me the love that I deserve!”

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